Today, my wife and I had a counselling session with our pastor. The reason for the meeting was our difference of opinion concerning the subject of naturism. I have never had a counselling session before. In fact, out of pride, I have always considered myself to be above the need for human counsel. Obviously, this is self-righteous, and down right dumb. The Word says:
Where there is no counsel, the people fall; But in the multitude of counselors there is safety. (Proverbs 11:14)
So, reluctantly, I went, and now I’m glad that I did. I didn’t know just how much of a problem Dencie had with me being natural in her presence all of the time. It turns out that it bothers her quite a bit. I never wanted to offend my wife, but it looks like that is exactly what I have been doing.
Over all, I think it was a good meeting. Our pastor agrees that being nude and natural is not inherently wrong, but she does think it is socially wrong in our day and culture. And that’s fine. That’s her opinion. However, she did say that it is wrong for me to force Denice into a way of life that she thinks is wrong, and that as a husband and a more mature Christian, it is my responsibility to change in order to protect her faith. I have to be honest, I didn’t like hearing that. It hurt like a sharp knife being plunged into my heart. But now that I’ve thought about it for a while, I believe she’s right. To Denice, social nudity is a sin. It doesn’t matter if it really is or not, because to her it is. I can’t allow my wife to be exposed (no pun intended) to something that she thinks is a sin. I just can’t.
So, to make a long story longer, I am not going to be natural in front of her any more, with the exception of sleeping, showering, and sex. I will still be a naturist, but only unto myself. If I want to worship God as He made me, then I will go into the quite and solitude of the wilderness, because if I am alone, there is no one to be offended. And if I want to express myself, then I will do it with my writings, because my thoughts and opinions are still my own. I can’t change the fact that I have been set free in an area of my mind. It is simply what I am.
It really isn’t just me anymore. Denice is my wife, and her spiritual development is more important to me than this stuff. I love her more than life itself, so I am going to do what ever I have to do to not damage her faith. As a husband, this is my duty.
Yours Naturally,
Erick Eggleton
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